I think it's perfectly fine. It's like sometimes you don't always have a baby shower for the first one. Cassidy never got a baby shower, (yea, i'm bitter too) because people were "too busy" but hey, that's life. I'm planning on having one for baby #2 even if I have to plan it myself! I may get some people that are like "this is your second baby" but I didn't have one the first time. Even if I did have one, I still don't see a problem. It's a new life, it should be celebrated. Not pushed to the side because they already have a sister/brother.
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Personally, I think every baby should be celebrated weither . I had a shower with both of mine but I had a boy and then a girl and they were 17 months apart. I did reuse all the big ticket items with the second child. All of my showers were planned for me and I had nothing to do with them, which is the way I think showers are supposed to be done. In my opinion it is extremely tacky to throw yourself a shower and would have a hard time attending a shower that someone had planned for their self.
Oh, I'd never throw a shower for myself. Never. Ever. My SIL had two showers - and she had two boys who were 2 years apart. But both showers were thrown by the family.
Personally, I don't care if I have one or not. I dont need anything as I saved everything from Grayson. I'm just not going to mention one and see what happens. If one gets thrown, then it gets thrown, if not, then no biggie either.
~Stacey~
Grayson ~ 11.7.07
Jackson ~ 3.2.10
If someone wants to throw you a baby shower, then go for it. My sister has 5 kids, and she had a baby shower for everyone of them.
-Faith, hope and love are some good things he gave us but the greatest is love.-
Last edited by navywife05; 11-20-2009 at 06:42 PM.
i'm about to go to my best friends baby shower next week and this is her 2nd boy and it's cool with us! she kinda did it backwards though. her first came early so her "baby shower' was more like a 'meet the baby' and this one will be more of a true baby shower.![]()
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